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That parent who inappropriately touches or caresses a child has invaded that child’s boundaries and trust.

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I have heard people say that they lost weight under a good Uranus transit or a nice Saturn transit or Saturn crossing the Ascendant— but did they keep it off for the rest of their lives or did it creep back on after a few months?

To under go the massive change required to lose a large amount of weight and to keep it off for the rest of your life requires major transformational transits.

When I give my lectures on this topic, almost immediately I begin to hear the excuses— I can’t lose weight because I am menopausal, I can’t lose weight because I have a thyroid problem, I can’t lose weight because I am older and my metabolism is slower or I hardly eat anything and I still cannot lose weight.

I do not want to hear any of these excuses because this is all that they are, Excuses! Phil always says, You cannot change what you do not acknowledge! There is one excuse that I will accept— It is just too hard and I do not think I am ready to lose the weight at this time.

Another major hurtle to surmount if you make that monumental decision— the alienation and the sabotaging tactics of friends and family who do not want you to change. I was an only child who grew up on a farm, totally isolated and insulated from the real world.

This means that you may very well be fighting this battle alone. My mother did not want to let me go in other ways— she needed an eating buddy.

It is hard and we are not always ready to make those massive life style changes that support a smaller body size.

To lose weight and function at a normal size requires the greatest courage, the courage to face life unprotected, unprotected by the layers of fat.

He gave me a diet program— I was 8 years old— and my mother would tell me to follow it, while she prepared mashed potatoes and gravy and ate ice cream at night. These signs seek food as a release from perfectionist demands that the individual feels that he or she cannot possibly fulfill— setting up a boundary of fat for protection and distancing— and as a release from ever feeling one’s buried emotions.

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